Saturday, 23 June 2012

Well, IPs came over and after us discussing what has probably been a little communication error on both parts, we are now going for an early scan on the 15th July.
  It just proves what a great match we are in that, i felt i could communicate with them how i was feeling, they dropped everything and came round (bringing copious amounts of food for us) and we simply sorted it out. My side, your side, the plan of action from now on. Simple. They didn't go home until really late as we were just having a laugh and chatting like the friends we are which is fantastic and reassuring too.

 I remember having issues with my last IPs during pregnancy and the differences between how the situations played out, are huge. Maybe i have learnt quite a bit, tried to be more understanding, seeing it from their point of view too and i honestly genuinely believe that they are right for me, so everything just clicks in to place easier.

They did touch on the fact that they are rather like rabbits in headlights right now- it has all happened so quickly, and they haven't ever been here before in 10 years of trying so they are scared. Which is understandable of course, but they wanted to do Insems with a surrogate who has conceived 4 pregnancies out of 7 on the first month- it can happen. And it did. So suck it up!( I say that with a smile!)

Symptoms wise, having some really uncomfortable stabbing type pain on and off in my cervix area, which i remember having with one of my own children, but it still makes me worry. Just keeping hydrated, monitoring it and keeping away from google! Apart from that, i am just as tired, with a little more nausea thrown in, and of course the bloating is terrible, but feeling great apart from that! By the way, as a surrogate, is there any time that you don't go to the toilet fearing the worse??! I will be so grateful to reach 12 weeks!

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